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10.11.2017

Cozy on up...and get 10% off!!

Happy Wednesday babes!
I've teamed up with the cutest boutique ever and ALL of you
 can take 10% off your order with my code "Monica10" (valid for 30 days)!!!

Hope's has so many cute items but one thing I just HAD to have was this plum laced up sweater.
I ended up getting the size medium because I wanted it to be more of an oversized fit,
and I knew I wanted to wear it off the shoulder!
This sweater comes in 3 different colors, and their items sell QUICK so don't wait too long to order.




Sweater {take 10% off with code Monica10} // Jeans, cute option, cute option  // Shoes

So a "cold front" came in this week and it's FINALLY below 90 degrees in Houston!!
*Shout out to Jesus*
Kyle and I took the pup for a walk late last night and it felt so dang nice.

Can't wait to bust out the rest of my sweaters and favorite cozy pieces,
Fall is my F A V O R I T E.
We're still kind of at that awkward stage in Houston where it's cold in the mornings and at night,
but you'll sweat your butt off if you try wearing a sweater in the middle of the day...

But hey i'm not complaining, Cooler weather is right around the corner!
{I hope}

Happy Hump Day!
(PS I've worked out every day this week, y'all would be so proud)

10.10.2017

I'm a total sucker for monthly boxes - but this one takes the cake.

Monthly subscription boxes are seriously ALL the rage right now!!
and I am SO DANG EXCITED to share this with all of you...
that there is now a pregnancy "bump box" available!!!
Is this not the most genius idea ever?!
I can't think of a better or more exciting time in life to receive a monthly box of goodies
all catered towards your growing bump!



Each box is tailored towards your due date which is probably my favorite part!
I just turned 19 weeks this past Sunday and have been on the hunt for some kind of
lotion to help prevent me from getting stretch marks!
I was SO pumped to see that my box had a product in it for JUST that.
I used my bath bomb right away,
my lower back and feet were aching like crazy after a day full of errands
and a warm bath with essential oils was exactly what I needed!

Oh, and you better believe i'm throwing our sonogram picture of baby boy in that frame ASAP.

Whether you're a pregnant or new mama, this box is a MUST.
It also makes a perfect gift!!

Let me know if you end up subscribing or trying them out!!
Happy Tuesday Babes!

10.09.2017

Honesty is the best policy, chatting about fitness (and mac n cheese)

{for real though, click here for the > greatest maternity leggings ever }

I had full intentions on doing a fun fitness post for y'all today.
But I'm all about being real here on this blog of mine,
so that's JUST what i'm going to do, let the realness come out!

It has been HARD to work out consistently during this pregnancy y'all,
Now that i'm in my second trimester I definitely have some energy back.
But for some reason working out just isn't where my focus is at.
{probably because all I want to do is buy a million baby outfits & decorate a nursery}
Now don't get me wrong, I do get a small work out in every now and then.
But it just hasn't been as consistent as I would like it to be.
And I would definitely feel guilty if I sat here and wrote up a post about
these amazing maternity support leggings and told you how great they are for working out,
when in reality I've been wearing them to eat Mac & Cheese and an entire tube of crescent rolls
all while laying on my couch.
Which in all honesty, that feels like a work out in itself because I somehow seem to
get out of breath while eating these days.
{it's really not a pretty sight}

BUT I've brought you all here today to say that I am going to get my life together.
I went to Target yesterday...and made the BIG mistake of going into their dressing rooms.
Good God it was NOT a pretty sight.
Now if you've never been into a Target dressing room, they literally have mirrors on
every single wall, that will show you every single angle of your body.
And it is NOT good.
I remember when I was in shape and in college and STILL not liking to go in there....
Needless to say, yes Target mirrors just SUCK.
But, it was an eye opening experience for me....

Kyle's brother and his fiancé moved like not even 5 minutes away from us
a couple months ago,
so I was all like "hell ya, a workout partner!!"
Her and I went and got a gym membership at a cutie little gym in the neighborhood
like over a month ago...
Literally haven't gone back since.
WHOOPS.
I'm just so not a gym person at all...
The whole...people looking at me...me not knowing how machines work...me walking around aimlessly...people grunting in the corner and making me uncomfortable...
It's just not for me okay!!!

So a lightbulb went off in my head...
This same exact thing happened to me years ago and I came across the best
at home work out program ever and it literally transformed my body and my health.
I'm pregnant, and growing, so i'm not exactly looking for a transformation BUT
I'm definitely going to go back to those videos that I used to do every single day.
I'll just modify the moves so they work for me and the little babe.

I'll let y'all know how it goes!
pray for me, cross your fingers, do whatever you do...
I gotta get some lift to this ass of mine STAT.

Alright enough rambling for today.
Happy Monday!

10.03.2017

Trendy Maternity Clothing!

Okay guys, I totally truly 100% thought I would be that girl that kind of just 
MADE her pre pregnancy clothes work for her.
I did not see myself purchasing or wanting legitimate maternity clothes like whatsoever...

Well, as most of you are aware my bump showed up pretty quickly!
And honestly, trying to get my regular clothes on every day has been a complete pain in my ass.
And I mean that literally and figuratively. 

I did an Instagram post not too long ago asking everyone where they buy
cute maternity clothes and I got SO many responses and I'm so thankful for everyone that commented!
(If y'all want me to do a full post of all of my favorite maternity clothing shops so far let me know) 

I am officially a lover all things maternity, all things stretchy, and all things comfort related.
(and fabulous of course) 

So far in my pregnancy I've leaned more towards tighter fitting clothing.
I find it personally flatters my new figure more and shows that I'm not a huge wide load,
and I'm just rocking a baby bump. 

HOWEVER, I ran across this adorable little maternity top and I knew I had to have it. 
I am a HUGE fan of peplum and baby doll style tops, like #1 fan right here.
But I wasn't sure how peplum would work with my baby bump.




Top / Shorts (black pair) / Booties 

Well, to my surprise it was freaking adorable,
I added a direct link to this top for y'all under the photos!
Even though it's October, it's still in the 90's here in Houston. 
I am beyond ready for the temperatures to start dropping.
Apparently there's a cold front coming through next week,
so hopefully i'll be able to style a cute sweater/Fall look for y'all!!

Happy Tuesday everyone!

10.02.2017

18 weeks + Last boat date as a family of 3

Happy Monday!
I am officially 18 weeks pregnant, and I am LOVING this whole "growing a baby" thing.


I've been craving milk, like so much milk..
 (it's actually a little scary how much I could drink)
and Chinese food and CARBS, but mainly biscuits and milk? so weird.
I'm feeling GREAT, but have to be in bed by 8:30 or I get grumpy.
I've gained a total of 8 lbs so far and cannot wait to start decorating the nursery!
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Kyle and his cousin Corey purchased a boat for the family in July of 2016!
One of mine and Kyles favorite things to do has been to take it out in the evenings
on a week night just us and Charley and make a little date night out of it.

and now that Fall is here...well it's supposed to be here, but we live in Houston, so...
Anyways...
We probably won't be taking the boat out much more this year, 
Especially once the time changes and it starts getting darker earlier.
So Kyle and I decided to have one last family {boat} date night before
 there's a real life little babe outside of my belly!




I seriously can't believe i'm almost half way through this pregnancy!
Part of me feels like we just found out yesterday and another part of me feels 
like March is a million years away.

We've been doing some adjustments to our guest rooms and moving things around
and building things etc. I can't wait to show y'all!!!
I want to do a full home tour for y'all once we really get everything DONE.

Alright, well i'm off to get a little work out in.
Have a great day babes!

9.21.2017

Bump Stylin'






It has been so much fun and SO interesting watching my body change and grow!
The first trimester was definitely the toughest, you feel like crap, and well, you kind of just look fat.
I've always considered my bloating a curse, 
but when it comes to pregnancy, bloating has been a weird blessing.
Most people suffer through the "I just look fat" stage of pregnancy for a while,
but since i'm so dang bloated all the time, my belly has always looked like a "real belly"
Does that even make sense?! 
I'm pretty sure y'all know what i'm saying.

It's so odd, because when I first wake up I have just the slightest little bump.
Then throughout the day my belly just seems to triple in size...
I'll admit,
Part of me gets embarrassed because it does get quite big for only being 16 (almost 17) weeks.
But then the other part of me is like, HELL YES, there's a real life baby growing in there!!
And well to be honest, i've been waiting for this bump for years now, 
the fact that it's growing/showing faster than normal is kind of the greatest thing ever. 

So far, I'm loving being able to put different looks together, 
A lot of these looks I definitely could not have pulled off pre pregnancy! 
So it's been fun adding new pieces to my wardrobe & playing around with items I already have!

This entire outfit is made from pieces I already had in my closet.
You can see how I styled this dress pre-pregnancy here
This striped Brandy Melville tee is one of my absolute favs, 
I bought it years ago and love how you can style it so many different ways!

I've got my 16 week appointment today and I cannot wait to hear that little boys heartbeat!
Kyle can't come with me today so my mama is gonna come!
Thinking I may invite mine and Kyle's mom to our 20 week appointment so they can actually see the little nugget.
What are y'alls thought on this?
Did you ever have multiple people come to your appointments with you?
Suggest it? Not a good idea? Let me know your thoughts! 

Happy Thursday babes!

9.20.2017

I'm not like a regular pregnant lady, I'm a COOL pregnant lady.

Happy Wednesday!

As most of you know, I do photography part time.
I had the pleasure of taking some engagement photos for my brother in law and his fiancé last Friday!

They chose some super cute Houston art walls to pose in front of, 
and while they were doing an outfit change I just HAD to snap a pic in front of this one.
Dress (I tied it to make it shorter)/ Denim Button Up (similar) / Sneaks 

I posted this on insta and a girl had commented saying I should frame this in his nursery,
Which is actually a super cute idea!

Anyways, I need y'all to tell me if i'm crazy.
So lately I've started having this irrational fear that all of my friends without babies are never
going to want to hang out with me anymore.

Is this a normal thing?
Or am I losing it?

I do have a couple of friends with kiddos,
but the majority of my "best" friends don't have kids yet...
And I am SO afraid of being "that mom", y'all know what i'm talking about.
The mom that ONLY talks about her kid, always.
Like even on "girls nights" when everyone is just trying to vent and catch up...
and they're just over there talking about how often their baby's pooping, 
or that he's started eating solid foods, or how he woke up 12 times last night....
Is this a normal fear?!
I mean of course I'm going to talk about it, because it's consuming my life and thoughts (& body)
BUT I still want to be cool, and funny, and relatable, and have typical girl talk.
Ayyyyyy yi yi! 
So I just had lunch with one of my best girlfriends and once I got in my car,
I immediately started asking myself "Omg was I boring?
Did I talk too much about pregnancy or baby stuff?? 
We didn't laugh as much as we usually do...Omg am I not funny anymore?"

I'm pretty sure i'm just losing it,
because honestly I crack myself up on the daily.
.....Which, I guess could also be a sign of losing it.....

Nahhhhhhh....
Okay, I'm done for the day.

Bloggers, What are some of y'alls favorite weekly link ups?! 
I'm wanting in on the action so share your favs with me!

9.19.2017

Weekend Recap + Did they say what I think they just said

Is it too late to do a weekend recap of two weekends ago?! 
(Really wish I could add emojis in here)
Goodness, I'm behind!

Snag this cute suit for under $20!!

Kyle and I spent a lot of time in the sun this past weekend.
On Saturday we headed to my parents for some pool action, 
followed by a MUCH needed dinner at Texas Roadhouse. 
If y'all haven't ever had their Chicken Critter Salad, i'm urging you, 
GO NOW.
Hands down, best salad ever.
 [with ranch of course]
Dang it, now that I typed that I need one right.this.second!

Anyways, I'm thinking about doing a post soon about,
"What not to say to a pregnant woman"
If you follow me on instagram you maaaaaay have seen a rant on my stories this Saturday.

WAY too many people have given me their 2 cents on my pregnant belly,
and I had just had E N O U G H.
So thankful for all of my fellow mamas and sweet friends though.
You all shared similar stories with me and cheered me up REAL quick.
I love y'all.

For those who have no clue what i'm talking about,
There were multiple different instances where people had let me know
that my belly was way too big for how far along I am,
and well, I let it get under my skin.

BUT i'm feeling much better now and know that unwanted comments and opinions
are just something that comes along with pregnancy!

I love this {big} belly of mine, and I am so incredibly proud of my body and what it's doing.
For all you other pregnant mamas who have had similar experiences,
you're not alone and you're PERFECT!
To all you pregnant mamas who aren't showing yet and getting the,
"ummm are you sure you're pregnant??" "are you feeding that growing baby??" etc...
Hang in there!
You are perfect as well and everyones body changes and grows at it's own pace.
We mamas need to all stick together and support each other no matter what,
no more body shaming, and judgment!

Have a happy Tuesday Y'all!

9.11.2017

Life Update + Date Night

Things are going to be changing a little bit in my world soon!
I officially applied to be a Substitute Teacher this year!
{WOOO HOOOO}
As much as I love being at home, blogging, and running my online boutique.
The income right now just isn't as consistent as I would like...
and to be completely honest, I NEED HUMAN INTERACTION.

I'm hoping I'll hear back from them sometime this week so I can start soon!
Not only am I excited about getting out of the house,
but I actually have an excuse to create a cute look multiple times a week!!
{whoop whoop}
My pregnancy has left me SO tired all the time, 
so this will be a good way to get up and moving and hopefully be more productive. 

Kyle and I went on a little date night on Friday, 
which means I FINALLY washed my hair and changed out of my sweatpants! 




We went to Shogun, one of those Japanese Grills where they cook in front of you!
If you've never been to a restaurant like this, you typically sit at a big table with random people.
Kyle and I were the first to arrive, and then a girl and her mom arrived after us and sat by us,
and then a family of four...
I'm leaving out a bunch of little details BUT the main reason i'm telling y'all this story is because....
E V E R Y  S I N G L E person at the table {besides Kyle and I} was on an electronic device
the entire freaking dinner!!!!!!
Guys, it was so weird.
Nobody even said hi to us, and NO ONE was talking,
which made it uncomfortable for Kyle and I to have a conversation because 
they were all sitting at the same table as us and it was SO quiet they could hear every word
that we said to each other.
It was seriously the weirdest and saddest thing. 

Anyways, I'm telling all of you this to say, please don't be those people.
In a world where we're all addicted to our phones and technology, myself included.
DO NOT let it get so bad that you can't even enjoy a dinner with your family.
I'll be the first to admit, that yes, I love social media, and the internet and all of the above.
But I do everything I can to still be in the moment as much as possible,
and to not let it hurt my relationships and friendships.
Hell, I give all of you who are reading this that hang out with me to CALL ME OUT,
if i'm ever with you and i'm not paying attention to you because i'm on my phone.
I D O  N O T ever want to be that person. 

Okay, rant over. 
Time to get off the internet and get some work done and do something outside in this
UH MAZING weather God has been blessing us with lately!

Hope everyone enjoys their Monday!

9.08.2017

Surviving The First Trimester



Happy Friday, and thanks for hoppin' over here!
This week has been flyyyying by, and this post was totally supposed to be up Tuesday.
Whoops!

I wanted to share a few things with y'all that helped me survive the dreaded first trimester.
Hopefully it will help some of you who are newly pregnant or hoping to become pregnant.
And for those of you who've had similar experiences to mine, 
hopefully it makes you feel understood.

Before getting pregnant, I always knew that when I DID become pregnant
I would make some serious life changes.
I would eat only organic, I would eat veggies with every meal,
I wouldn't overeat and I would read every label that was either going 
on or in my body.
 Oh, and I would work out every single day, even if it was just 15 minutes of moving.

HAHAHA
Well, those were all great and beautiful thoughts....
BUT that's not exactly how my pregnancy has played out so far.

When I initially found out that I was pregnant I was about 4 weeks.
I didn't really have any symptoms besides feeling tired and having sore boobs.
Piece of cake, totally manageable.

I swear the MINUTE I reached 6 weeks, the nausea hit.
I am one of the lucky ones, and I never actually threw up.
But I had pretty bad nausea on and off from week 6 through week 9.
And the bloating...holy crap the bloating was on another level, and painful!
So I wanted to share with y'all a couple things that helped me manage all of the
not so fun things that come with the first trimester of pregnancy.

So not only did nausea hit me at 6 weeks, but so did food aversions.
Literally ALL vegetables made me gag uncontrollably.
I could not get a vegetable down for the life of me.
The thought of anything healthy would immediately make me nauseous.
At first, this REALLY stressed me out.
I was so worried that the baby wasn't getting the nutrients it needed.

It wasn't until a sweet friend of mine gifted me the book,
 "Belly Laughs" by Jenny Mccarthy that I really stopped stressing.
If you're in the midst of your first trimester, or hell, ANYWHERE in your pregnancy.
I HIGHLY recommend this book.
It is SO freaking relatable and hilarious and will make you feel so much better
and realize that everything that's going on with you is N O R M A L.
(including being disgusted with vegetables)

Baby boy has been surviving on ALL THE CARBS.
I was REALLY concerned about not getting enough veggies at first,
but apparently being disgusted by all things healthy is fairly common.
However, I have been taking a shot of Ningxia Red every day,
so that has definitely helped ease my mind.
If y'all are interested I'll do another post about Ningxia
 explaining what it is and why it's UH MAZING for you & baby.
It was something I took occasionally before pregnancy
but knew it was an absolute MUST when I actually did become pregnant!

For me, the nausea was totally random,
and if I ever let myself get hungry at all it would worsen x100.
I made sure to keep crackers with me at ALL times.
That would almost always settle my stomach and make me feel better.
Even if I wasn't hungry, munching on them always helped!

Once week 9 hit I would get constant headaches and back pain.
I refused to take any meds in the first trimester but I did use some {young living} essentials oils.
If you're like me and are B L O A T E D like crazy during the first trimester,
then stock up on some peppermint oil!
Whenever I was painfully bloated I would just rub a few drops on my tummy.
Whenever the headaches hit I would rub a few drops of Panaway oil on my temples.

Those really did help, But if i'm being 100% honest, 
the only thing that would FULLY help me feel better during the first trimester was a good 'ol bath.
NOW....Baths aren't highly recommended during pregnancy.
Some people say "absolutely DO NOT take one", some say they are "totally fine".
I would always make sure that the water was warm and not super hot.
During your first trimester you don't want to let your body temperature get too high.
But I swear y'all, I would feel like I was on my death bed,
with a mixture of nausea, migraine, bloated tummy, and body aches.
As soon as I got in the bath it would ALL go away.
Baths really helped to keep me sane during the first trimester,
and as long as your smart about the water temperature
and careful about what you put inside the bath,
I say GO FOR IT.

{As for exercise, if you've got enough energy to work out in your first trimester,
DO IT.
I didn't and i'm totally regretting it now.
I'm attempting to start working out again, but being incredibly out of shape 
on top of being tired and pregnant makes it kind of miserable.}

The first trimester is such a crazy time, especially if it's your first pregnancy.
You don't know what to expect and you don't know what's normal.
I was so worried all the time.
If I didn't feel like absolute crap then I was worried that something was wrong.
{please don't be like me and do that}
Every pregnancy is different and every pregnancy is unique.
However it is totally normal to have good days and bad days.
When you have a good day, ENJOY THE HELL OUT OF IT.
Because the bad/tough days will be back before you know it.
However, if you've had tough days and then start losing symptoms regularly,
and by regularly I mean weeks of feeling normal/no symptoms at all
 (after previously having symptoms).
In that case I would definitely contact your doctor, just to be safe!

Today i'm officially 14 weeks and 5 days, and unfortunately i'm still tired as all hell.
I contacted my doctor yesterday and sent him some ingredient lists to
energy drinks I found, asking him if any would be safe for me!
I'll let y'all know what he says!
To all you pregnant mamas with toddlers running around, God bless you.
You're the real MVPs.